There are various features in The Sims 4 that help the game feel more realistic and immersive - Wants and Fears are a perfectly example of this. A Sim's environment and personality will direct affect how they feel, and this will be expressed not only through moodlets but also through Wants and Fears.

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The Wants and Fears system is very different from the one available in The Sims 2, and this guide aims to explain exactly how it works so gamers can familiarize themselves with this challenging yet fun gameplay feature.

How to Enable Wants and Fears in The Sims 4

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In The Sims 4, players can toggle Wants and Fears on and off at any time. While Fears can sometimes negatively affect a Sim, Wants are a great way to improve a Sim's mood and collect points, which the player can spend in the Reward Store.

To enable or disable Wants and Fears in The Sims 4, players must pause the game, select Settings, and then open the Game Options tab. On the right hand side of the Game Options tab, gamers will see a "Show Wants & Fears" option with a box next to it. Players have to check the box if they'd like to play with Wants & Fears activated or they can uncheck it to keep these features hidden.

How to Check and Complete Wants in The Sims 4

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To check a Sim's Wants in The Sims 4, players must hover over the bubbles that appear on the left side of the selected Sim's head in the bottom left corner of the screen. There are lifetime aspirations in The Sims 4 that Sims must work towards throughout their lives, but these bubbles only display the Sim's momentaneous Wants. However, gamers can pin Wants so they don't disappear, ensuring that the Sim will receive their reward no matter how far in the future they complete the Wants.

To complete a Want in The Sims 4, players will simply have to perform the task connected to the Sim's wishes. Oftentimes, the Want's description will give the player direct instructions on what they have to do to fulfill a Sim's Want.

How to Check and Overcome Fears in The Sims 4

As Sims experience certain events in their lives, they may acquire Fears, which will affect their mood. Thankfully, there are ways to deal with Fears in The Sims 4 and prevent them from haunting Sims throughout their lives.

Here are all of the Fears in The Sims 4 and how to overcome them:

Fear

Cause

Solution

Fear of being cheated on

  • Have the Jealous trait
  • Mediocre WooHoo with partner
  • Lack of attention from a partner
  • Catch a partner romancing others

Discuss Fear of being cheated on with a partner

Fear of death

  • Near-death experiences
  • Death of close relatives or friends

Discuss Fear of Death with other Sims

Fear of fire

  • Experience a fire

Extinguish a fire

Fear of ghosts

  • Have a negative experience with a ghost Sim

Fight a ghost

Fear of the dark

  • Have a negative experience at night

Go outside at night with the Confident moodlet

Fear of swimming

  • Have a negative experience while swimming

Swim for an hour with the Confident moodlet

Fear of failure

  • Perform poorly at work
  • Craft poor quality items

Show off a crafted item or ask for a performance review

Fear of a dead-end job

  • Not receiving a promotion or raise in a while

Use the Regain Passion interaction on the Sim before going to work

Fear of Cowplants

  • Eat a Cowplant's cake

Milk a Cowplant with the Confident moodlet

Fear of being judged

  • Be the target of Mean social interactions

Use the Figure Out Differents interaction on two Sims

Fear of crowded places

  • Visit a crowded lot

Use three Funny social interactions while in a crowded lot

Fear of unfulfilled dreams

  • Not completing Wants in a while

Complete a want and then use the Discuss Fears interaction on another Sim

Fear of failing after-school activity

  • Be a Low Confidence Sim
  • Have the Overachiever trait

Complete the daily task for an after-school activity with a Happy moodlet

Fear of disappointing parents

  • Drop out of high school or university
  • Share negative sentiments with caregiver
  • Low Confidence Sim

Use the Absolve Fears interaction on a deceased caregiver's urn or use the Set Expectations interaction with a living caregiver

Fear of failing classes

  • Be a Low Confidence Sim
  • Have the Overachiever trait
  • Have low grades at school

Do Extra Credit Work on Homework after asking a teacher for it

Fear of failing tests

  • Fail an exam or pass an exam with a low grade

Prepare for exam with the Focused moodlet

Fear of homework

  • Not doing homework in a while

Complete homework two days in a row with the Focused moodlet

Fear of being inferior

  • Be a Low Confidence Sim

Get B or higher grades at school or gain more than five levels in a Skill

Fear of horses

  • Have a negative experience with a horse
  • Have the Paranoid trait

Use the Discuss Fear of Horses interaction with other Sims or have nice interactions with horses

Fear of eviction

  • Receive a fine from the Property Owner

Successfully use three friendly or flirty interactions with the Property Owner

Fear of being alone

  • Have a low relationship meter or bad romantic satisfaction with a partner
  • Have the Lovebug, Unflirty, or Cat Lover trait

Use the Seek Validation interaction on a romantic partner, use the Practice Affirmations interaction on a mirror or seek Couples Counseling using the Cupid's Corner app

Fear of intimacy

  • Have the Socially Awkward, Noncommittal, Unflirty, or Romantically Reserved trait

Use the Discuss Comfort Levels or the Share Intimate Thoughts interactions with a close friend

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The Sims 4
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7 /10
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Released
September 2, 2014
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SUBSCRIPTION
DIGITAL
PHYSICAL
Checkbox: control the expandable behavior of the extra info

ESRB
T for Teen: Crude Humor, Sexual Themes, Violence
Developer(s)
Maxis
Publisher(s)
Electronic Arts
Engine
Proprietary Engine
Cross-Platform Play
Xbox, PlayStation, and computer versions of Sims 4 are all separate games incompatible with each other
Cross Save
no
Franchise
The Sims
Steam Deck Compatibility
yes
Platform(s)
PS4, Xbox One, PC
Genre(s)
Simulation
How Long To Beat
N/A
X|S Optimized
No
File Size Xbox Series
22 GB (November 2023)
OpenCritic Rating
Fair